寻找艾米

看了大概有两三年的样子，之所以记得是因为最后三人的关系并未如电影所电影，而是以理智的平凡来处理
艾米说，万一我喜欢上你，而他喜欢我，或者是。。。。
记不清的反正很纠结的关系，然后艾米起身离去，剩下两个gay男发愣。。

一段复杂也简单的爱情，一个典型的男人很理智地做了错事，一个典型的女人做了很多错事才变得理智，他俩一起走到了各自的交叉路口...

庸俗地提示下，这是个关于一个男人爱上一个女同性恋，一个女同性恋爱上一个男人的故事。呵呵

电影里的每句台词都很认真，很聪明。

力荐男女都看，但很多人可能会觉得：闷

好象总是有人拍莫名其妙的电影，当然也有人看莫名其妙的电影。
比如[猜情寻]
比如我。

三个人各奔东西的结局，让我有点莫名其妙。
当他说他是个同性恋是，我在想，这到底是男同电影还是女同电影？
竟然有人在视频的留言栏里说“没有做爱镜头不爽”。
显然那是位需要视觉刺激者。

嘿，莫名其妙的电影和我等莫名其妙的看电影人。

片子看了一半，实在不怎么喜欢女主角，所以看不下去。再加上，我没有字幕，只听他们的连读英文让我头痛。所以，只好放弃。看别人写的剧情介绍补足，算是看完了……呵呵，剧情不予评论。Ben一般般，不是我喜欢的类型。嗯……

    这是我看的第二个凯文·史密斯的电影，比《疯狂店员》差远了。主题很简单，就是讲爱情那码事的，中译名《猜·情·寻》简明扼要地概括了大意。故事的一点新意体现在对女主角身份的设定上，是同性恋，而又在向异性恋靠拢。但是我觉得这个演员表演不到位，怎么看怎么别扭，本·阿弗莱克还凑合。其他的嘛，情节没什么特别之处（如果有，也“特别”得牵强，不合情理，最后阿弗莱克那个解决办法实在是突兀得不象话），毕竟一辈子能写出一个《疯狂店员》那样的本子就该知足了。其实我们看凯文的电影，主要兴趣是在美国另类文化和美国青年的另类生活方式上，电影和这有关的也就是一个漫画大会，凯文还不失时机地顺带着又提了提星战，仅此而已。台词也找不到多少精妙之笔，有很多卖弄的嫌疑，男主人公真情告白那段倒是堪称经典，简直像是从十部爱情经典中提炼出来的，但也仅此而已。……这样来看,这个片子也就看着玩吧……

True touch of life emotions. honest, raw, melodramatic, but its all part of life.

The movie deals things among friends, lovers and anything in between. How are we define our loving feelings towards another human being, how are we identify ourselves emotionally and sexually, how are we cope with one's past and what they are thinking about us.

True love is that hard to find, but when we find it, we try everything on it, we question, we test, we doubt, we wonder. It is human nature, we want to vindicate over and over again, that love is unique, is pure, is never be touched by anyone. I guess we just want to feel special, but we are special, with or without. Love is powerful, but lovers can be damaged for good. When we desperately seek equality and balance in love, it tilts unexpectly to the other side.

There are two kinds of people in the world, 90% is narrative, about one tenth are episodic. When I say narrative, it means people are affected and shaped by what they experience, something in the past can change someone's character; while episodic people don't believe past things can change them, they see their past and future separately. Maybe Alyssa is an episodic, but that doesn't mean people look at the way she thinks everyone looks at her. It partly explains why she falls back to her own way in the end.

Love is easy, loving a person is never easy (apart from living with one). We are sometimes forced to confront their issues past, present and future, we get frustrated easily. But the power comes from within, that willingness to take on that person wholly and completely, believing that he/she is really the missing part of the puzzle, and accepting the aching truth that he/she's done something you don't want to acknowledge.

Next time, when love comes along, don't hesitate, don't question, just enjoy the company of another soul that really gets you.